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Boss Sisters Who Brunch | A Day of Sharing + Connecting

A wonderful day of inspirational stories, sharing + connecting . . .

I shared my story to a packed house!

I was blessed to share the stage with these beautifully inspiring women . . .

So thankful for the friends who came out to support . . .

A few weeks ago I had the pleasure of attending and speaking at the 2nd Annual Boss Sister’s Entrepreneur Empowerment Brunch held in Long Beach CA, at The Grand. I can’t tell you how much this event blessed me, and from what I hear, it blessed all the women in attendance that day. I was able to share the stage with some amazing women. I was encouraged, and inspired and left the event with a full spirit. It was truly a day of female empowerment. I wanted to quickly share with you how this came about, as many of you know I am not a public speaker although I am quite an excellent public listener.  ;)

At the beginning of 2018 I was thinking about what I wanted to accomplish in the new year. I decided to choose one word for the new year, that would help me to remain focused and keep my tasks and projects in alignment with my word. Well, during quiet time one morning God gave me the word to focus on. He said He wanted me to be more visible.

Visibility. Ugh.

This word was definitely from God, because visibility is not a word I like to use in relation to myself, however, I am smart enough to know that one can only remain invisible for so long.  I also know that to do the things He has called me to do, I must be visible in some way. So, I chose the word VISIBILITY for 2018.

Fast forward to this past April . . . Deanna Lewis, co-creator of Boss Sisters Who Brunch, reached out to me to ask me to be a speaker at the event. She said The Lord had put it on her heart to ask me to participate early one morning while she was still in bed. Isn’t it amazing how God works? I automatically accepted, knowing that I could not possibly say no, even though I was semi-cringing inside. I asked her what she wanted me to speak about and her words were very simple: “Just share your story. ” Well that’s what I did, in a nutshell.  Click the video below to peep if you like, and be on the lookout, I hear Deanna is planning on hosting another event in the Fall. :)

xoxo,

Boss Sister’s Entrepreneur Empowerment Brunch :: I’m a Speaker Yall!

Hey guys! I’m honored to have been asked to share my story at the 2nd Annual Boss Sister’s Entrepreneur + Empowerment Brunch! I’ll be sharing the stage with 5 other amazing women on Saturday, June 2nd at The Grand in Long Beach. Click here or on the link below to secure tickets for yourself and a friend! www.brownpapertickets/bosssisterswhobrunch

(p.s. pray for me yall!!! this is a definite step out of my comfort zone! ;)

xoxo,

5 Tips to Maintain Balance as an Introvert Entrepreneur

5-tips-to-maintain-balance There is so much daily activity that comes with being an entrepreneur. If you also happen to be a small business, you may be doing everything yourself. That means that you alone are the one who deals with all of the activity that surrounds your business. Donning your customer service hat, dealing with the UPS guy, acting as your own sales rep and assuming the role of social media manager for your business are all in a day’s work. As an introvert + business owner, the never ending stream of interaction can be mentally and physically draining. I say this not to diminish the fact that our UPS guy is actually pretty cool, and I love interacting with customers when I get the opportunity. Most of all, I am grateful for the blessing of all of my current, past and future customers. I even pray for them! But as an introvert, the constant interaction can be exhausting. Top that off with working in the extroverted world of fashion, and I’m on energy overload. For those of you who can relate, here are 5 things I do to conserve energy and maintain a balance so that I can be my best me on days when I have to don my social hat:

  1. Start your day with quiet time, prayer and/or a review of your To Do list for the day.
    I’ve noticed that when I don’t allow for quiet time in the mornings, my days are off and running before I am, and it leads to a more stressful day.
  2. Schedule clients, shows and meetings later in the week whenever possible. 
    One of the main reasons I became an entrepreneur rested in my desire to work in a way that allowed me to flourish. I did the traditional 9-5 . . .  (or 9-8, 9 or 10 in the fashion world) for many years, and lets just say, I much prefer working that hard for my own business. Running my own design studio has allowed me to set my business up in a way that works for me. By scheduling in person visits, meetings and events later in the week, I am able to ease into the week starting with the things I love to do most and building up to do those things that don’t quite come as easily for me. It also allows me to visualize how I would like events and meetings to go, so that when they actually take place, I’m working from a blueprint of familiarity.
  3. Schedule a specific time each day to handle phone calls.
    Everyone who knows me knows I have a love-hate relationship with my phone. I love to take photos with it, document ideas and text with it. But when it comes to making calls . . . well, lets just say that’s not an area where my strength lies. So I’ve learned to schedule my outgoing calls and call backs during a specific window in the day. This allows me to work freely, uninterrupted when I have big projects going. I’ve also noticed that once I make my first call, its easier to just keep going with calls . . . kinda like a phone-call-momentum if you will. I realize this may not be something that will work everyday, but I have found it to be a great work around when possible.
  4. Schedule the number of in-person events you will participate in monthly. 
    These days there are numerous industry related events held every month that can be beneficial to business owners. And honestly, as an entrepreneur, every opportunity to mingle with people is another opportunity to promote your business or meet a new client/customer. However, events can be seriously draining for introverts. I keep a folder on my desktop of events I am interested in attending as I come across them. I try to schedule no more than 3 industry related events/month. I’ve found that if I can schedule what events I will be attending at the top of the month, it allows me to, in turn, schedule downtime between events. It also leaves space for any surprise gatherings that may pop up.
  5. Play to your strengths and recognize your differences.
    It has taken me a long time to realize that being an introvert doesn’t mean that I can’t do certain things, it just means that I do things differently, and that’s okay. It’s a process to discover what works for you. Seeing how different situations impact you and how you relate to the things you do on a daily basis is important to maintaining that necessary balance we need to keep us feeling whole.

How do you maintain a balance that allows you to flourish as an introvert in business? Please share in the comments!
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Werkspace Wednesday | Your Vision is Key to Your Success . . .

Your Vision is Key to Your Success | THE LOOKBOOK PHILOSOPHY

Yesterday was an interesting day for me. I spanned the range of emotions, from tears to laughter . . .  frustration to joy. It wasn’t so much that something bad happened, it was more like frustration with the way things were going. Running a business on a shoestring budget with out help is more than a notion. If something goes wrong. . . you have to handle it. If the raw materials shipments don’t arrive on time . . . you have to get on the phone and track them down (and then work extra hard to keep everything else on schedule so there is no trickle down in the production schedule). If shipments need to go out to customers . . . you guessed it . . . you have to ship them. In addition to all the physical things that go on in a business, there is the mental work that takes place throughout the day . . . creative budgeting, designing, creating + implementing ideas for marketing, advertising, collaborations and even blog posts. The majority of the time I am fine with all this. But for some reason yesterday, I just got fed up with things. My laptop kept freezing up on me, I could not get in touch with my hardware supplier all day long, time was flying by and I had yet to accomplish anything meaningful before the kids would be home from school (which, technically, is the end of my workday.)

So I stopped.

Well, first I cried . . . then I stopped. I’m sharing this not as a rant, but rather as a simple truth of soloprenurism . . .  or part of it anyway. Things can get overwhelming, and when they do, if you are able to, I recommend this:: get quiet + stop. Remember why you are doing what you are doing. After I dried my eyes,  I realized that I had not been keeping my vision in front of me. I had just been going nonstop, jumping from task to task and losing track of the “why” as I was so uber-focused on the “what.” This brings me to my point (only 2 paragraphs later :) . . .

Your Vision is Key to Your Success.

Yall know that I am a visual person. I’ve discussed it here many times. It’s also the reason this blog was created. But I realized I wasn’t keeping the vision in front of me! I wasn’t keeping my specific goals in my line of sight. I have a few vision boards in my office. Some I use for the lines I am working on and others hold more longterm personal goals. I hadn’t looked at my long term vision board in a while. In fact, I didn’t even know where it was at first. So, I found it and got quiet. I looked at the photos, and the statements I had attached to them and I used my mind to see the things I was looking at in a new light . . . as in the light of the reason WHY I was doing all this stuff. And guess what? It helped!! The quietness even lead to ideas of what steps to take next. I felt so much better after I was able to just let go of what was going on around me and set my sights back on the ultimate goal. I even set aside a little time to revise my vision and update it. Clarity is key, people! So if you have been feeling a little overwhelmed or off track, try getting quiet and stopping for a sec. Get out your vision board, vision book or list of goals and look at them. See them coming to fruition in your life and listen for any new steps to take. I’m telling you, it works!!!! :)

keep moving forward!

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